my SO is terrible at sex UPDATED

i’ve told him to try new things.. i’ve asked if he has any different position he would like to try. he just wants me to give him head.... and do missionary 😴😴 he doesn’t even eat me out.. or make me cum. sex is just absolutely horrible. even if i’m like “FUCK ME” it’s just no good. he says he’s never eaten pussy so he doesn’t do that at all we’ve literally been together since 2012 and have one baby together. and i tried to just brush off the bad sex because i mean i feel like it just wasn’t something that was a priority when we started dating. but like as i’m getting older i’m getting more sexual.. and yes i’ve talked to him but he doesn’t understand. any tips??

UPDATE:

so this was all great advice.

I mentioned some of these things and he said

“ i don’t see anything wrong with our sex but whatever” 😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴

soooo i literally told him like you’re not getting me off like at all and it just makes sex kinda boring.....

he told me it was my problem that i couldn’t cum hahahaha. (i am capable of having an orgasm lol)

I wish he was more open to some of this advice, but i guess it made me realize he isn’t very affectionate in the first place.. like if we’re sitting next to each other he doesn’t wrap his arm around me.. if i’m laying next to him he doesn’t cuddle. 😴 i guess my sex life is just gonna suck forever but thank you so much ladies.