Why can’t I have a baby??

Question

Sometimes I get so angry and upset... I for sure thought this was gonna be my month after 2 years!! But no start my period full force first thing this morning. And just now somebody on my Facebook announced they are having a little girl due in December!! And that’s great, but why the hell cant I have a baby. I want a baby so badly and I know I could provide for a child yet I clearly can't have one. But you have all these other people not even trying pop up pregnant. Like what have I done wrong with my life that I can't have a baby. Or at least a living baby I miscarried at 15 weeks June 2017. Why can't I have the one thing I want the most?? I’m beginning to wonder if I’ll ever have kids. Im beginning to lose faith. Will it ever happen??

Answer

I understand and h as ve been in your shoes. My husband asnd I tried for 2 years and in October 3017 I got a bfp! Best day of my life. We were so excited and had two healthy scans showing a strong little heartbeat. In December a few days before Christmas, I lost the baby unexpectedly at 13 weeks. That same week my best friend who is unmarried with three children from different fathers announced she was pregnant from a new boyfriend. I went though a dark period after that. Then in March 2018 I got another  bfp and thought no way would I lose another. Then mothers day weekend the bleeding started. I was so hopeless and no one seemed to understand. Then March 2019 came and that made one year since my last bfp, it was painful getting my period that month. Then my sister announced she was expecting her third baby. I remember crying so loud when I found out she was pregnant, my husband thought someone died.
Never give up because just when I about did, I got my bfp this April and I'm now 25 weeks with a healthy baby girl. My sister ended up miscarrying the week I got my bfp. Life is definitely not fair, but somehow it all worked out. Please don't give up, keep going no matter what, and fight. Good luck

Answer

We ttc for 4 very long emotional years and I had the same feelings as you, why not me etc, I had to leave shops on occasions due to seeing pregnant women and new babies, it broke my heart! We went to start IUI, had the medication for me in the house and BAM period never came I got pregnant naturally! Had my daughter and we started ttc again near straight away, took 14 months that time around only to have a mmc at 10 weeks, took 10 weeks for period to come back but BAM got pregnant on that first cycle 🙏🏼🙏🏼, I’m just shy of 29 weeks now with my rainbow 🌈.... DONT lose hope, be positive.💕💕💕🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

Answer

Sure it will. Have you seen an specialist? Maybe you are so anxious that you can’t. My mom took 2 years to have me an only got pregnant when she said she wasn’t going to actively try

Why can’t I have a baby??

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