ok this story got two parts lol i’ll try keep it short

1st part:

my bf (lets call him Jack) got a new phone recently but he wanted to set it up as essentially a new one with a couple of his old fave photos rather than moving everything from his old phone.

this included pics from photo vault which he had to add to the new phone then delete.

so was chillen going through his pics the other night (he was fully aware) bc most were of us and decided might as well go through the recently deleted. was kind of surprised when i came across a bunch of pussy videos that i never sent. out of curiosity watch one and realised was his ex gf masturbating using makeup (mascara tube/ concealer container etc).

jack and i have had a lot of trouble in our relationship regarding this ex as she is super manipulative and likes to threaten the both of us. there are two reasons why i’m kind of uncomfortable with this:

1- they’re def in his photovault (essentially porn stash) because otherwise he would have no reason to move them onto his new phone and then delete from his camera roll. not really keen on the idea of him getting off to her lol.

2- the time/date stamp on the videos was from early in our relationship. this is one of the main things that makes me feel sick because he insists constantly that he is done with her however he continues to talk to her and he was dating me when he got these vids lol.

i know i should probably bring it up with him but whenever i mention something that makes him uncomfortable he completely shuts down, and after all the shit he endured with his ex being emotionally manipulative etc so i’m trying really hard not to seem like her.

also part two of the story is that the ex and i were mates (she cut me off and was an asshole way before Jack and i dated) and i remember borrowing her makeup constantly and some of the videos were dated to be quite old at AROUND THE TIME I WAS HER MATE so i am not the most comfortable with that hahahah