Anyone else?

Second time mom and currently 38 weeks pregnant, and I’m STILL not dilated at all. I know dilation means nothing since I was 1cm from 36 weeks on with my first son, and I still went to 41+2 before I had him. I’m just wondering if anyone else didn’t dilate with their second baby and still managed to have them before/near their due date? I’m hoping others’ stories may make me feel better and not so crazy that he’s just not gonna come out. 😂 ETA: I have been having painful inconsistent contractions LIKE CRAZY as well, but obviously they’re not doing anything helpful, so that’s not helping how I’m feeling. 😂