FTM what do I need

So I thought when this time came I would remember raising my little nephew and watching my mom take care of my siblings (I’m married and old enough to have children I’m not a teenager even though that don’t really matter) but I have forgotten everything I have dealing with a great amount of stress and mental illness during this first pregnancy and I just don’t even know what all I need. I have basics like clothes shoes bottles warmer sterilizer car seat for both vehicles I’m getting a bassinet and travel set infant bath tub crib changing table at our baby shower I just don’t know if I’m missing anything I know play pin but toys does she needs toys is there anything I should get since she’ll be born right in the middle of winter! Please make suggestions and any websites where I can print out lists (books have been triggering migraines while pregnant so I’d have to avoid books unless they are cheap and available with audio do not have audible account) thank you so much in advance!