Mixed feelings and responses

me

I got my positive this morning ❤️. It’s really early so I will test again in a few days. My husband and I weren’t “trying” but we weren’t preventing either. We have a 1.5 year old and 5 year old daughter. My husband has always wanted 3 kids and he is such an amazing father. I finally came around and agreed that a third would complete our family. So... one month after coming to this conclusion I’m now pregnant.

And- I don’t know how I feel about it. I’m anxious about what’s to come, I’m sad that my kids will have to share me with another, and I’m nervous about the response I will get with family.

We’re financially secure, employed, mid 30’s, healthy- yet I feel like there is a stigma against having more then 2. I told my friend this morning and she responded with “oh shit” then told me if it’s false then to get on birth control!

I guess I’m just looking for reassurance that 3 kids is doable and maybe some positive responses to the pregnancy. Lol. Hubs is over the moon, but I need some support ❤️