Weight

I have never been a girl who was EVER self conscious, in fact I learned to love my curvy hips and thicc thighs (and calves.) My boyfriend of 4.5 years had told me he was talking to my dad and my dad said I looked like I was gaining weight. Of course it was at the start of my period so I’m feeling bloated and SUPER self conscious. I wish my dad would have came to me and said something instead of telling my boyfriend. Do I look like I need to lose weight or look like I’m fat?