Pregancy and sex .. did it change for you ?

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Ever since I’ve been pregnant mainly towards the end .. I’m 37 weeks and never get sex anymore.. how do you feel about this ?! I think it’s non sense but whatever.

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His last message is so awful!!!!!!!!! How could you not be attracted to your pregnant girlfriend /wife😞

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I think he had a poor choice of wording. Pregnant sex creeped both myself and my husband put towards the end. We probably stopped around 36 or 37 weeks. Our daughter would kick the crap out of me every time we tried and it was just... weird for both of us lol. He was attracted to me but in a different way I think. Not a “oh I’d tear that up 😏” way like he was pre-pregnancy but in a “my wife is beautiful carrying our child” way.

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Obviously his comment was rude.
However, I think the way you were pressuring him wasn't cool. People are allowed to not have sex if they don't want to, whether or not they're a man. You guys should have a convo in person & BOTH of you should try to be sensitive.

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Would he say that to your face?  His last comment is straight up mean. I would talk to him in person about that for sure!

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i understand him not wanting to, but what he said is mean and awful!

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I would slap the shit out of my man if he told me that!! You are carrying his baby! That is BEAUTIFUL. That should make you even more attractive. He put it there! How can he say that he is not attracted to you right now. AND if he wasnt.. that is NOT something you tell a 37 week pregnant partner. Baby mama gets what baby mama needs. I'm not always attracted to my partner, sometimes he let's himself go, as do I! but I would never tell him that, nor withhold sex because of it. Love is love. Doesnt matter the shape or size. 
If I were you I would sit down and talk some sense into that man.

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I think both of you were acting poorly. The way you were trying to pressure him is not cool and he should not have been that blunt, but I do think that it at least was good for him to get his feelings out about it. Some people just aren’t into having sex while they/their girlfriend is pregnant and that’s okay.

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I get that he might be uncomfortable. And he should be respected in that aspect. But that comment is rude as fuck. I wouldn’t speak to him until he apologizes. What’s he going to do after the bays born?? Does he expect you to bounce back and look like you haven’t had a baby? Jill he think you’re unattractive then? I can’t wrap my head around how rude that was.

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Wow. I would be super fucking upset. How rude. As if you need that shit on top of all the hormonal and physical changes your body is going through to make your baby 😔

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Ha who tf does he think got you pregnant? Most guys have the reason "I don't wanna hurt the baby" but this is a whole other level of dumb.

Pregancy and sex .. did it change for you ?

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