Red flags in a relationship ? 🚩

Question

What are your top ten red flags in a relationship everyone ? 🤔

Answer

jealousy/insecurity- same thing they go hand in hand and in most cases if it’s too much they’re more likely to be controlling and a bit overwhelming. sometimes there are situations where you feel like you’re threatened and thats where y’all gotta sit down and talk it out. which is HARD. feelings are complicated and messy and just overall difficult. sometimes we don’t know what we’re feeling because we’re confused about what we really want and make a situation harder than need be.  
 mommas boy- can’t work with them. they’re babied most of theyre life and most guys ive noticed that are too close with their mom don’t even know how to cook or do laundry. they’re also manipulative and lazy. 🤷🏻‍♀️
social media- i feel like it’s a big red flag if any relationship tries to force it to be too public. sometimes it’s nice to be shown off but it’s not a requirement. 
cheating. obviously. but most women on here i don’t think really understand what that word means. they tend to throw it around a lotttt. especially when it comes to porn 🙄. but to each they’re own. i think some women are just really insecure and have to work on themselves 
sex- it’s a big flag if you can’t sit down with your partner without talking and making a compromise, if you think you have to fix a problem with sex then you’re doing it wrong. you’re mental health and well being comes before anyone (no matter how good you think it is or if you’re an “addict”. stop making excuses to put yourself in a tougher situation. you’ll never have a healthy relationship doing this. i said what i said 👏👏)
drugs- i feel like this can be taken on a spectrum. i’m not saying i condone an addicts problem but they’re human an if you truly love someone you can help them but that doesn’t mean you have to be with them and sit by while they self destruct themselves. if you’ve hit rock bottom, the only place to go is back up and that’s not anyones decisions but they’re own. you can’t force it. 
 kids- oh god. the one we all don’t want. which hear me out. everyone LITERALLY everyone on this app is worried about being pregnant OR they’re trying to get pregnant. and let me just say my fair share on being this app i’ve come to realize and notice in my own day to day life that people have sex to fix they’re problems but they also CANT. so what do they do to make it cookie cutter perfect ? they’ll have kids and sometimes in most situations it just doesn’t work. instead of being an adult and coming to terms that your feelings aren’t the same they’re gonna take it out on they’re kids. and then the kids are emotional unstable because they gotta sit by and deal with their parents bullshit from something 10 years ago. or someones having an affair, or ones sex drive is another. children do not fix anything. sex comes with a price but so do kids. 
communicate. communicate. communicate. 
as an emotional abuse survivor, in the beginning i almost got sucked into thinking everything was a red flag. and honestly sometimes i still personally get scared of men. not that they’ll physically hurt me. but idk. people shove their feelings off and make it seem taboo to talk about. if you can’t sit down with someone and tell them 
what’s on your mind and y’all making a team effort to make change then you’re doing it wrong. 
ACTIONS OVER WORDS. empty promises get old y’all.

Red flags in a relationship ? 🚩

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