Problems bonding after miscarriages?

Question

Idk if this makes sense but I've had 3 miscarriages and I'm pregnant again but I'm worried because I dont feel excited like I did with my previous pregnancies. I'm terrified honestly and I feel guilty that I dont feel a bond with my pregnancy. 
Has anybody else felt this way/been through anything similar please let me know because I feel awful

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I've had 4 losses (up to 8 weeks) and am now almost 13 weeks. I didn't really start investing my heart into it until maybe the past week or so. I'm still nervous of course but I feel like I'm starting to allow myself to bond in a way with it. Miscarriage really does take away the fun of early pregnancy. I wish you well and hope things start to feel better for you.

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I had a miscarriage, and got pregnant 3 months after. A miscarriage will always be on the back of your mind. Every time I pee, I check for blood. And when I start to cramp a bit, I always freak out. I’m like you..barely talked and touch it. As I am fearful of losing this baby still at 34 weeks. I will know everything is okay once she has made her arrival.

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I still don’t feel like I’ve bonded very well after 2 miscarriages. I don’t talk to my baby and barely touch my belly. Miscarriages forever ruin the innocence of the joy of pregnancy, or at least I think it has for me. I’m ok though, I’ll bond when baby is really here! You’ll get there, even if not during pregnancy! 💗

Problems bonding after miscarriages?

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