In law problems..

Alright, I’m seeing everyone else vent about their in-laws/boyfriends family so I figured I could pitch in... but I need a little bit of advice.

I honestly don’t want my boyfriends sister around my son after he is born and here’s why.

Before I got pregnant, she tried to accuse me of accusing someone else of r*ping me, because his mom & her ran to someone else to get information on me, and of course they got completely wrong and quite honestly disgusting “information”. She tried everything she could do get my boyfriend to break up with me. She messaged him asking him to delete everything they texted about because she didn’t need me in their business, obviously he didn’t otherwise I wouldn’t have known she asked him. She did/does call me names, tries to make me seem controlling, etc. she would tell him that I wasn’t good for him and that he needed to leave me, with no real reason other than the fact she didn’t like him being happy and not needing her. The same stuff she would tell my boyfriend wasn’t acceptable about me she would turn around and do herself. There’s so much more including refusing to apologize for the mean things she’s done/said...

When I found out I was pregnant I let her know that I didn’t want her planning the shower and gender reveal, and wanted an apology before anything (I let all my feelings out to her in hopes it would make things better) but I felt like a horses ass and let her talk to my sister and cousin about helping with the baby shower. Mind you, I never received a text message back. She has not done one single thing for the shower & had the audacity to tell my boyfriends mom that my sister and cousin weren’t listening to anything she said and that I wasn’t going to like anything. I’ve seen the texts. She hasn’t done crap. Not only this, but I still haven’t gotten the apology I have asked for.

I don’t think that she deserves to be around my son if she can’t make things right with me after I went to her, me letting her “plan” the shower and try and make things right, etc. she has not once talked to me since I got pregnant, or asked how me or my son are doing. Am I being unreasonable?