Vagina problems

I have a really tight vagina and well it hurts to put a light tampon in. I recently got a boyfriend and well we started to have sex, we do it raw because I'm on birth control. Recently we had sex and I went to go pee and it really really fucking hurt, worse pain I've ever felt down there. I started to cry that's how much it hurts, so I stopped peeing and went to bed and hopefully it would go away. A day or two later we had sex again and after it really hurt, I went to pee and it burned again but this time there was a tiny bit of blood. But it wasn't in my vagina it was somewhere else, and now there's a bunch of white stuff coming out of my vagina and it smells really gross. I've been cleaning my vagina regularly and taking care of it. Is this normal or??