Is my husband not attracted to me anymore??

Question

I need some serious HELP! 
My husband and I started TTC about four months ago & it’s been a whirlwind of emotions on my part because obviously every month with a negative definitely messes with my head but recently my husband started losing an erection, DURING sex with me. I don’t know what’s going on. He says it’s just him in his head but he’s been more distant too and I just don’t know anymore. My husband and I have been together for 5 years and our first wedding anniversary is next week. I just need some help and not dig into my own head that it’s me and not something else. 
I’m 24 and my husband is almost 26

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I haven’t experienced this with my husband, but I have read a lot of women’s stories similar to this. Maybe he feels the pressure of being able to perform during your ovulation window that he can’t fully enjoy the intimate moment with you. Maybe don’t let him know when you are close to ovulation and go with the flow.
For me, this cycle has been ‘blah’ my sex drive has been so low and my husband has been the one initiating everything since he knows around what days I should ovulate, but I’m just not feeling it this cycle. It happens.

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Try being spontaneous when you ovulate. Don’t tell him when you’re ovulating. It’ll take the pressure away.

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Stress and pressure do things to a man us women don’t always understand. Loss of erection is one. If he is distant he feels scared of letting you down and pushes you away instead.

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Try not letting him know you’re ovulating (I know much easier said than done) and see if that helps. I went through this with my husband when we were trying. I think you’re beautiful from that picture so I highly doubt you’re the issue. my best educated guess is he either has performance anxiety now that you’re officially trying or possibly a medical issue. Either way good luck!

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Take the pressure away from him, and perhaps yourself. Have sex for the sake of having sex, not for conceiving a child.
Don't let him know, if you know when you ovulate. But perhaps do yourself a favor and don't know. Just enjoy your husband! Have fun!

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Tell him to try a plant-based diet!

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Switch it up ; if usually he’s in control of starting things up you do it ; I would stop baby talking and just make love because once the baby comes it will change for a while and I also heard sometimes while pregnant you become less sexually active so enjoy your time now with him slice it up

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I bet it's a stress of trying to conceive and perform for you. And if he is now feeling self concious he most likely trying to avoid it because of the issues.
Just reassure him, don't tell him you're ovulating and enjoy eachother again!
Just have fun and help him relax xxx

Is my husband not attracted to me anymore??

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