is it worth it?

My boyfriend and I are going down two completely different paths in life. He wants to stay close to home, I wanna move far away. He wants to do hard labor, I wanna go to college. I really like the thought of doing the disney college program at some point, just for the experience. Basically while working there and doing the program, you stay for about 6 months. My boyfriend said he would rather move there to Orlando Florida with me than stay back where we live and be separated for 6 months. I feel like it isn’t that big of a deal but he feels completely different about it. He tells me I’ll never be able to find the perfect guy that wants to do everything I wanna do and be exactly the same as me and that there’s no point in even doing the program. He’s afraid that when I go there and see it all, I’ll wanna stay and that’s not fair to him. He really wants to compromise all the time and at this point I don’t know if I’m being selfish or if the way I feel is okay. We’re juniors in high school and I want to focus on school more than anything right now. I’ve talked to a few friends and teachers and some of them say he’s an asshole, others say we should compromise, but one person told me that if my gut feeling is to leave the relationship, then I should. If he doesn’t support you and your ambitions, then he’s not worth it. But then I ask myself, am I returning the favor for him? I don’t want to waste my young adult life on one guy but at the same time, I feel so self conscious that I’ll never have another boyfriend because I’m so ugly. I don’t know how I feel about this anymore and I need help. Any advice?