Rude kid

So today we went to my in-laws house and one of the SIL childhood friends had came over and brought her son. This boy is 5 and for as long as I known him (maybe since he was 1-2) he has been a really bad child. So rude, doesn’t respect adults, curses, screams everything you name he does. Well when he got there my MIL was like “oh no here comes trouble!” 🙄 i didn’t really think anything of it bc i hadn’t seen him in a while and I’m like man is he still bad. My SIL daughter is 6 years old and they’ve been friends since forever. Well she up and just starts playing with this boy and pushes my son away (he is 2) she’s a brat at times too. She hated it when my son was born because she wanted all the attention from her grandparents. Frankly I could care les because I don’t want my kid spoiled.

Anyways so my son just wants to play and is sharing toys and what not well this damn kid starts pushing my son. And screaming at him and I called him out on it because he wasn’t wanting to share but expected my son to be ok with him taking his snacks away. (My kid shares but this kid just up and pushed him and tried To Take his cup so my son said “no!”) come on he is older he shouldn’t be like that with little kids. Well he claimed he was sharing and started yelling at me and rolling his eyes. (Boy I would’ve popped Them to the back of his head!) Well my SIL daughter starts doing same thing to my son. I was like “umm no you are not gonna be like that to him. That is your cousin and you were perfectly fine playing with him until this other kid came”

I had to get my stuff together and tell my husband “let’s effin go!” Because I was so ready to smack these kids that wouldn’t stop bullying my son. I can’t stand it when they are not disciplined. Both these kids have been left to do whatever they want and even the parents don’t know how to make them behave. Plus it doesn’t help when my in-laws are all babying them and saying “she’s my granddaughter she can do whatever’s she wants at my house” umm excuse me?!? Heck no! My kid is not gonna be like that even if he is at their grandparents. This is why I don’t want them to “spoil” him. My son may be only 2 but that boy knows when we say stop/no we mean it.

Sorry rant over-for now lol