Would you update him about the baby?

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My husband left me. I have peace in my heart. I am 6 months pregnant and as weird as this situation is he and I are both excited about the baby. At 27 wks now, the baby moves a lot and I try to record some of it. Should I send it to him lol? I think it’s a miracle and would love to share but part of me feels he doesn’t deserve it

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You have to put your feelings aside whether he deserves it or not he’s wanting to be in babies life I think it would be a really nice thing to do X

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Depends on how involved hes made himself so far. Does he go to doctors appointments? Does he ask about the pregnancy? Is he helping you anyway he can ? If not i dont think youre obligated to share. If hes super involved then yes, you probably should include him.

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If you’re at peace in your heart and the child is his then by all means share it. It’s an amazing thing to share.

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I think it's ok to have mixed feelings. Don't share because you feel obliged and don't share because others tell you to. Share because you feel it's the best thing to do, because you want him to be a part of the moment even if you're not together anymore. But feel free to keep things to yourself, too, to cherish and remember as yours only. And remember, even if you chose not to share now, you can share later if you have a change of heart. ❤️

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Yes. It's his baby too

Would you update him about the baby?

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