Getting in the mood

So I've been having sex for about three months now, still kinda new to me. I really don't know what turns me on besides rubbing my clit in a circular motion or watching porn for about 5-10 minutes but when I'm with my boyfriend I don't get naturally wet.

1. Because he's always jumping into things. We just literally get lube because I feel as though he doesn't wanna wait the 10-15 mintiest of foreplay to actually get me wet. He used to get me naturally wet when we were taking things slow and wasn't having sex but now that we are everything is a rush.

2. I wanna find other ways to be turned on. I'm worried that I am probably one of those people who only get wet by turning on themselves. (When he used to get me naturally wet it wasn't compared to how wet I got myself) and I don't wanna depend on porn to get me going you know. Lol.

So basically my advice is, what things get you guys horny and what advice do y'all have for me?