Vbac advice

I'm pregnant again and my son will be 18 months when I'm due with baby #2. I had to have a C-section with him due to his arm being up by his head which made him stuck. 36 hours of labor, 4 hours of pushing to a C-section.

Any advice from other vbac momma's or 2x C-section momma's. I have to decide what I want to do and I'm so conflicted. I would love a vaginal birth but I'm afraid of labor being long like my first. I don't have anything against having a C-section it's just I want to try and have a vaginal.