What would you do?

Question

If you’ve been with your boyfriend for four years, living with each other for three and a half, and he said he wouldn’t have a baby with you until you got to a certain weight (a healthier weight). What would you do?
I am a little overweight, but not by much. I have a thyroid condition and PCOS that makes it very hard to lose weight. I eat healthy and work out daily. A healthy weight for me would be 145. He wants me down to 130 before even starting to have a baby.

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Are you an unhealthy weight right now? If so, I think that’s reasonable, as getting pregnant when you’re overweight can cause health problems and complications for both you and the baby.

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Well it depends.  Did he say it being a dick or genuinely concerned.  It has been proven that being obese can make it harder to conceive and there could be issues. It also depends how overweight. Is he being realistic in the weight loss? Theres so many factors

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I think he just wants you to be healthy. And you will gain weight if you do get pregnant. You don't want to end up getting high blood pressure or diabetes while pregnant that can cause complications. I'd try to workout or go walking everyday at least and cut out fattening foods. No soda or fast food helps with weight loss

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He sounds ridiculous and controlling.

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Are you over weight? If so, getting pregnant will put more weight on you. You are more likely to have complications such as diabetes, high blood pressure and everything else. So he may be concerned for you and his future child. If you're not over weight he is just a dick 🙄 and I'd suggest having a talk with him. Either have a talk with him.

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