Am I weird for this?

Question

So like I knew my bf watches porn. Recently his phone broke and he’s been using my iPod linked to my phone and I saw all the videos he watched and it hit me and made me upset and angry. I don’t understand why and should I even be mad? I don’t know. 🤦🏼‍♀️

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It’s up to you. 🤷🏻‍♀️clearly you’re feeling some type of way about it. Figure out what that is and talk to him. I know some people don’t mind really but they’d rather not see what kind, etc. maybe have a talk and let him know it’s okay (if that’s how you feel), but that you’d feel more comfortable if he took better precautions to delete the history so you don’t have to see it. Or if it bothers you all together, communicate that to him. It’s not everyone’s cup of tea and no one can tell you how to feel about it, that’s up to you. Think about it and let him know how you want the situation to be handled.

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So you know he watches porn and you were ok with it and now your not because you saw the videos he’s watching ? Sorry I’m a bit confused , if it bothers you just tell him you aren’t ok with it or just don’t let him use your stuff .

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I get how you feel. In principle we can be okay with it, but seeing it with our own eyes always feels a bit different. I think you should just tell him to wait until he has his phone back, because you’re not comfortable seeing all the content. He could still watch it privately but clearly it’s not something you want to know all the gory details of.

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Idk honestly, I never understood asking someone to not watch porn. It’s a lifesaver sometimes. When I’m not in the mood, he can go watch porn and relieve himself; and vice versa. We even watch it together and it helps us show each other what we may have wanted to try. 
However, if you’re upset, I’d still talk to him. Tell him how you’re feeling.  The worst thing you can do is keep your feelings bottled up

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Find some porn you can watch together? Or don't loan him a linked device for his smut while he's whacking it.

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My husband used to watch porn and man did it bother me.

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I watch porn. Sometimes we watch it together. He likes stuff I don't like and vice versa. Guess that is how we live out weird fantasies together.

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We watch together.

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if you don’t like it talk it out! is it just the porn itself? do you feel like it’s replacing you? the content? my husband and i work opposite shifts so for us it’s no secret we get off without each other, he even bought me a $200 vibrator lol. it’s great because we’re both comfortable with it. i also think us not sharing what the content is helps too to combat unintended insecurity.

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What kind of porn was it?

Am I weird for this?

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