Am I the only one terrified if sex right now?

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I found out I was pregnant a month ago. Weve had sex twice. I'm terrified of sex in the first trimester lmao. Sounds stupid but I've had 2 losses. And I know it's common to spot after sex, but I'm also RH negative and any type of bleeding terrifies me. My sex drive was crazy in my second trimester with my last, so at least SO may have something to look forward too 😂🤷‍♀️

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Rachel...

Google is great for lots of info on it! You would need a rhogam shot around 28 weeks and after birth if your baby is positive. My local hospital suggests getting one anytime bleeding occurs  where my drs office doesn't believe its it's necessary.  I personally have and always will if there's bleeding.

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I am 10 weeks and 1 day and we have only had sex twice. I am so scared too! I will be calmer about it once I get into the second trimester but hubby wanted a baby so this is what he has to deal with 🤷🏼‍♀️

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With my first 2 we had sex a lot. Like every other day to every day. Especially in the last trimester. 
This pregnancy we’ve done it 3 times. I’m currently 22+4. Around 8 weeks I bled a lot, 2nd time I didn’t bleed but we went very slow and we just had sex 3 days ago and I bled again. It was painful and the pain I feel is exactly where I had stitches after my second was born. I refuse to have sex from here on out because it scares me each time, plus I can’t enjoy it when all I’m doing is worrying if I’m gonna bleed.
My doctor always tells me it’s normal. He also said wait a week before having sex again, if you bleed, to make sure it’s nothing more than sex causing it.

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I was scared too because we had a loss before. My doctor told me sex won’t cause a miscarriage, after him telling me that I felt so much better and we had sex all through out pregnancy. Yes there will be spotting sometimes but that’s normal.

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Baby is safe in there, the first time we had sex this pregnancy we took it slow and he made sure he didnt go rough. No bleeding/spotting or cramping, you're not gonna know until you do it and once you do the connection between you is so much more now ❤🥰

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I’m 7 weeks 4 days and not had sex since we conceived - found out almost 3 weeks ago and I refuse to have sex or even play myself!
I had a missed miscarriage in June and only went knowingly wrong after we had sex. Definitely waiting until after my scans before I’ll feel comfortable x

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Have sex with your hubby. Everything will be fine. We were all about the D when we are trying to get pregnant but as soon as it's done, it's a different story. Some of my guy mates say they "feel like they get used and chucked away."
Obviously if youre not feeling it that cant be blamed but having sex wont harm your baby. Go wild!

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Yes because I've been spotting every day since I last had sex Sept 22nd. Last night I gave my dh a handle/BJ. Hopefully we can just do that until my bleeding stops. My cervix is so sensitive!

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Yes same but I just went for it and nothing happened we've been having sex quite a bit, I'm also RH- and yes it is scary.

Am I the only one terrified if sex right now?

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