Is it okay to have sex after one month of dating?

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My boyfriend and I are going to be one month on Monday and he told me he already wants us to have sex next week. We’re both virgins but I feel like he’s going way too fast.

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No, not if you aren’t ready. If you think it is too soon, then it is too soon. Wait until you are ready for it

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If you feel like it's going too fast, it's going too fast. Don't have sex until you feel comfortable and ready. Never have sex with anyone just because they want to. Do it because you both want to and are ready. Especially your first time. 
This is going to sound harsh but it's your life your living. You don't want to look back on this with regret. You shouldn't have this new experience just because someone has decided they are ready. If he's worth anything, he'll wait until you're both ready. If he won't wait, you'll know you made the right choice saying no.
Is it ok to have sex with someone after dating for a month? Yes. Is it ok to have sex with someone when one person isnt ready for it, doesn't want it, or has any doubts about it? No. Both parties should always be giving enthusiastic consent and in some cases having sex in these circumstances is not sex it's rape. No one should ever be coerced or manipulated into having sex. (This includes guilt.)

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It’s only okay if BOTH of you want it. Don’t do anything if you’re not comfortable with it and don’t let him or anyone else pressure you into it. If he really cares about you then he’ll respect the fact that you aren’t quite there yet.

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If you aren’t ready it’s not ok. If you are ready, sex on the first date is ok

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The part that makes it not ok is that you feel like it's too fast. You BOTH need to be ready before it happens

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Honestly girl, if you have to ask that question, then no. If you feel uncomfortable with the idea and dont feel ready, then hold off a bit. Unless you've known him before you were dating, a month isnt really enough time to fully know someone. 
Id advise to let a few more months go by. Pay attention to his habits, the way he talks to his parents, the way he reacts to anger or rejection.
I regret only waiting a month with my ex, just to see everything he was afterwards (which was awful 😒)
Just talk to him and be honest. Best of luck 💚

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If you aren't ready, or are unsure, I would definitely wait. Especially since you're both virgins. He should understand and not try to pressure you. There is no "set time" when you should have sex. It's completely up to you and him together. If you're unsure, just wait until you know
Also, use a condom! Please don't do anything without it. It protects you from pregnancy and helps keep both of you safe from STDs.

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If you're on the same page, I would say yes, but in your situation that sounds like a definite no. And don't depend on what other women are putting on a poll to decide what you're going to do, the answer is different for everyone and you'll regret it if you make a decision based on what other people are saying vs. how you actually feel.

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Not if you’re not ready and you think it’s going too fast...

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First if you are not ready don’t do it. Don’t let him pressure you because “he is ready”. If he gives you a hard time about it you need to leave him and find someone who respects you. 
Second please make sure you use condoms and start some sort of BC if you want to avoid STDs and pregnancy. I know you said he is a virgin but you really never know. 
But again if you are not ready don’t do it.

Is it okay to have sex after one month of dating?

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