13 years older

Hi friends,

Im 34 and my boyfriend is 47. Weve been trying for 1 year now. Im starting to think its not gonna happen. Anyone with an older partner conceived? How long did it take you?

Im not sure if its him or I. Not sure how to tell him I want us to both get looked at. Ive always told him, it would be great if we did get pregnant but I dont mind if we dont, but as the year has gone on, I have wanted it more and more. I dont know how to approach this.