I’ve been with my boyfriend of and on for 9 1/2 years. Now we’ve have some bad time and some great. Things I’ve experienced in this relationship I should have been left but I didn’t. We were engaged once but something happened and that was over. Fast forward..... I cook, clean etc etc. I’m a great woman to him. Am I wasting my time? He say I’ll get a ring “once I act right” tf is that??

Update: I’m sorry I didn’t include this part. Because I felt ashamed. The engagement was called off because he cheated on me and produced a child. The “if you act right” is because I’m basically broken and paranoid ever since the situation of him having a child on me. He partially blames me for him cheating etc etc.