Neighbour wants to [sleep with] my husband..Update 1, 2, 3 and 4!

About 4 months ago, my husband had a job interview but was to early so went to the local pub to have a quick drink. My neighbour works in this pub (I had no idea who she was) anyway, my SO rang me after his interview and told me he had a quick drink at the pub and he saw our neighbour and was chatting about how he has a 1 year old and about to have another any day (she's now 3 months old) she was chatting to him telling him that she's been single since her boyfriend left he when she was pregnant with her 2 year old yada yada! I didn't think anything of it, just was like of right fair enough

Now I have to add, I'm 24 my husband is 23 and this girl must be 25/26

Over the past few months I've seen her talking to my husband at the end of our lawn.

Over the past month though it's gotten so much worse. We'd hear voices and her and her little boy would be right outside our house playing, id go out and she's be like 'oh I'm sorry he just loves playing by your car' but if my husband goes out she's all flirty and talks to him about his day. πŸ™„πŸ™„

One day she came and knocked on our door just so she could chat to him. She knows his days off because his car being parked outside.

I had to go to the shops super quick last week, she was stood outside her house and saw me leave without my kids so she knew my SO would be home. Little did she know where I was going, shop is only a minute drive from my house.

I came home about 5 minutes later, guess where she was.... yep at my front door. Talking to my husband yet again.

Now I'm getting super pissed off now, my hubby bless his heart tries telling her how happy we are (I've overheard him say it) I literally walk down to my front door and see her face drop then she makes an excuse to go πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ

When we got back inside, my husband said we need to move πŸ˜‚ I'm like why, and he informs me that she's told him that she like what he wore to work the past week and if he ever gets lonely or bored, he knows where she lives. Fml πŸ™„πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ this bitch is really pushing my buttons now

So today, my husband had to take my car to work today as my baby's pushchair broke and we had a temp one and it only fits in his car. So I ran to town, did my errands with kids then came home. 30 minutes later there was a knock on the door. It's this bitch, I opened it and her smile faded straight away. I asked what she wanted and she asked me if my hubby was in, I said no he's at work why, and she looked me dead in the eye and said she wanted him and she always gets what she wants.

OH MY GOSH!!!!

I've never laughed so much in all my life, I literally looked at her a wished her luck and shut the door in her face. She's now trying to add my hubby on Facebook and message him in messenger. He's blocked her and so have I. Before he blocked her though he messaged her saying if she comes near him or any members of his family he will call the police and get her donefor harassment.

Bitch better behave, or I won't be.

UPDATE.....

GUYS we saw her again!!!

So it's a nice day, my SO has the day off today so we thought we'd take our little girl out on her bike just outside our house. My hubby was stood with her making sure she was ok and clapping every time she'd peddle (she's only just learnt how to ride it)

Anyway, I was stood at the end of my lawn watching them both whilst feeding my 3 month old little girl (I'm breastfeeding) she comes out of her house with her little boy, we just ignored her and carried on giving our whole attention to our children. She walks over to my hubby and says to him loud enough I can hear 'did you seriously not realise I was interested' he looked at me and winked and then said back to her 'did you not realise I was happily married seeing as I told you every time we spoke, I don't want to make a scene in front of my children and wife but all I have to say to you is, your f*****g lucky my wife is feeding our baby otherwise I don't know if I could stop her beating your ass down' she picked up her son and walked back into her house.πŸ˜‚πŸ˜

Y,all I love my man even more haha! We went back into the house and I literally wanted to just jump on him πŸ˜‚

I trust him 100% we're very open in our relationship. If my phone dies (Which happens quite often) he will hand me his phone to finish what ever I was doing and vice versa.

We've been together 6 years and been through so much together in our short lives. He's gone through cancer twice, I stood by him every step of the way, and we've gone through 7 miscarriages together. We're super happy so some hoe from across the street isn't going to stop that!! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Will update if anything else happens but I really doubt it now 🀞

GUYS just thought I'd let you know, he went in to the pub and had a Pepsi. My husband actually can't drink alcohol because he's on medication πŸ˜‚ but love how so many people jumped to conclusion haha! Also yes we're British πŸ˜‚ annnnnd my husband didn't even know she was flirting with him that's why he didn't think anything of it haha

UPDATE 2-

so guys, there was a knock on the door yesterday, when I opened it, it was a delivery guy. He said that there's a parcel for number 10 (this girls house πŸ™„) and our house number was the backup on the forms, meaning if she wasn't in that all her deliveries get delivered to our address. This totally made sense because all her packages got delivered here. Bit of a joke really. Gave her the perfect excuse to come over.

I took the parcel from the guy. Made sure my kids were safe and happy and literally ran across the street and chucked the parcel into her garden over her fence. (It had fragile be careful written all over the box)

Doing that made me feel 100% better πŸ˜‚ just waiting for her to say something about it. Haven't seen her since my hubby put her in her place. I rang my SO at work and told him what I did and he started laughing at me and asked if I felt better doing it! Dam right I felt better πŸ˜‚ he knows me so well haha!

UPDATE 3-

I just spoke to my bestie about the whole situation. She asked me her name and told her! Guys it's turns out that her son's dad was a married man as well, the reason he left her was because his wife found out about his affair and made him choose. This seriously is like something I'd watch on t.v. and not something that happens in real life πŸ˜‚πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ my bestie and I have been sat laughing about it over coffee all morning. If I see my neighbour again, I'm just gonna rub my happy family in her face πŸ˜‚πŸ˜

Ok so there was one comment on this post saying my hubby was obviously enjoying it and they were being quite rude in the way they were talking about him. I just have to say girl, you don't know my husband. He's the sweetest person you could ever meet, and as I've said before, he generally didn't know she was flirting with him. When we first met I had to tell him I really liked him because my flirting wasn't do the job πŸ˜‚ I was shaking my ass and everything and he had nooooo idea πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈπŸ˜‚

So believe me when I say he is just a lovely person that's hates upsetting people unless he really has to, and if you read my post properly it states that she got worse the past couple of weeks. It wasn't until I told him that he twigged on.

If that's what you think men do, then you've been with the wrong ones because I've actually found myself a good one that would never hurt me or give me any reason to believe he would ever hurt me. Now carry on with your sad life!

UPDATE 4-

Not really much of an update this time sorry girls, but thought I'd update you all on what's been happening the past couple of days.

So basically, I don't think she has any idea it was me who threw her parcel over her fence onto concrete because 1. she's not said anything and 2. She's got this big note on her door asking the delivery driver to take her parcels to her next door neighbour. (Not my house 😁)

Yesterday we went for Sunday lunch at our nearest pub (no alcohol involved just food πŸ™„) and she was in there serving. We had a table for 3, my husband, me and my eldest sat in a row whilst my baby was in her pram sleeping.

Anyway, she completely ignored us, apart from a few dirty looks here and there. My husband was over affectionate with me πŸ™„πŸ˜‚ talk about rubbing salt into the wound!! πŸ˜‚ we spent the whole time laughing about what he has been up to at work (he works with children who have challenging behaviour) so he gets beaten up on a daily basis πŸ˜‚

I think she hopefully gets the picture now 🀞 I've been waiting for something to happen but nothing as of yet! Thought at one point I was going to walk out my front door and I'd walk in some human shit or something πŸ˜‚πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ my dreams were bad for a few days πŸ˜‚

Any way thanks for reading my story about my freaky neighbour! I'll be sure to update if anything happens again. Hopefully not πŸ˜‚

Thought I'd also mention, has anyone else noticed glow has changed the name of this post πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ thought that was funny!

GUYS SHE CAME AND APOLOGISED TO ME!!!!!!

UPDATE

So many of you want to know what happened haha! So basically I was putting my bins outside ready to be collected and she was doing the same πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ I looked at her and she looked at me and smiled. I was like nope. Anyway, she walks over, I was like oh hell no πŸ˜‚

She just says 'Kate, I need to apologise to you, I took your husbands kindness and wanted more from him' I just told her he wasn't interested and we're happily married. She said she understands and walks away. I shouted after her and told her to stop chasing after married men or she will get her heart broken. She ignored it.

I finally think it's over 🀞

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