‘Lost’ Your Virginity to Random or Love?

Just interested to know who you ladies ‘lost’ your virginity to. I put lost in inverted commas, as to me I don’t feel like anyone ‘loses’ anything unless it was forcefully taken from you - such as rape.

I lost my virginity at 16 to my current boyfriend. I honestly really didn’t care who I lost it to at the time, I didn’t think much about it, but he happened to come along and we clicked.

However, during a time we weren’t together I had sex with random people...boy was it different!!

I definitely have a new found appreciation for having sex with someone you love, to me it’s a totally different ‘ball’ game.

I much prefer having sex with someone I emotionally connect with and I’m glad I ‘lost’ it to him.