My husband told me to tell him whenever a guy hollars at me. So ive been telling him a lot of stories that happened to me. My husband told me not to fall for it or get flattered, because im not the only woman they say and do this to. One day, he got drunk and told me i must think that me telling him every time a guy hollar at me would make him afraid to lose me, but im wrong. He says he wont regret it if he loses me, so telling him whenever a guy hollar at me, wont make him afraid of losing me, or even regretting if he does lose me. He says for me to not be so proud of myself and to not take those compliments seriously, because im not the only woman they say and do these things to.

Idk, all this just makes me feel like he doesnt love or value me. Some men would be like youre gorgeous thats why u get so many compliments, and guys hitting on u. But he never say this to me. Making me feel like all the compliments he ever say to me, he feels the same way with every other women.

What do u think?