My body count sky rocketed after breakup. Normal?

Question

I was with my ex for 2 years, he took my virginity...I loved the man, but we broke up...and my dumb ass went seeking attention from anyone who would give it to me...my count went from 1 to 6 in a matter of two months...I feel like a slut. I’m ashamed of myself.. I feel nasty. 
Did you ever feel like this? Will this feeling go away?? It sends me into panic attacks every time I think about it, and I wake up every day hating myself. 
In the moment I was just trying to “be young” and “live a little”...but now I regret it.. parts of me want to tell my ex, because we still talk daily..and often times talk about getting back together...
If we ever get back together i would definitely tell him...

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I’m so tired of girls feeling bad because they have a “high” body count. Girl- you do you. Live it up. You should never feel ashamed (or be made to feel ashamed) of your decisions. It’s what you wanted at the time and that’s fantastic. Keep on doing you

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You don’t even wanna know mine 😂
If 6 is slutty to you 
I should be burned at the stake

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Yep. I was 100% hurt when my bf and I broke up. I used my ex as a rebound, told him this and we both agreed on it. Then I told him I wanted to stop after a week because I wasn’t feeling it anymore, the regret was setting in, and the sadness was kicking. He ended up ghosting me after I told him I wanted to be friends, and I got back together with my bf after telling him what I had done. I believed he has a right to know so he’d have he choice if he wanted me back after that or not. We were 17 at the time... very immature and stupid 🤦‍♀️ But he did take me back, and now we’re happily living together

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It doesn’t matter how many people you have sex with or how quickly. What does matter is how you feel about yourself so either you need to realize it’s not a big deal at all or scale it back a bit so you can continue to feel good about yourself. I mean everyone can experiment in life and find out what feels good and works for them. If it makes you feel terrible then don’t do it so often 🤷🏼‍♀️
I had a friend who would sleep with random girls all the time after he broke up with his first love. He told me how he would wake up in the morning hating himself and reach for the handle by his bed and just start chugging it and end up doing it all over again that night. Sometimes it’s not good for you. You have to make that decision.

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You can do what you want!

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I remember being like 19 and judging a girl I was in college with for being at 15 (I was at 5 at the time and feeling bad about that!).  Now I’m over that number 😳 and many people assume I’m like an innocent Mormon girl or something (from my looks).
Sometimes I feel guilty and horrified at the thought about others finding that out about me, but most of the time I’m content because I really know what I like now and my hubby reaps the benefits of better sex.
My advice though, is never tell someone you love or want a future with your true number.  It only hurts them and some guys have a hard time getting it out of their mind once they know.  There’s really no reason they need to know anyways.

My body count sky rocketed after breakup. Normal?

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