Soo I hope u guys dont think I'm a brat . Anyways my husband is in jail for the past couple months since june .. I had to move on his moms because we had to leave our place . So I'm already stressed out from helping paying his lawyer off and owe his mom even thoe she said it's no rush .. I'm rushing I dont have time to just owe ppl lol I got stuff to take care of on top of it and my husband little brother is 8 and I take him to school in the am . And my husband got mad at me because I dnt cook his brother breakfast and his mom got upset because I dnt spend time with him before school like multiplication watch TV talk to him instead of him making his cereal n taking him to school . N I dnt want to be the bad person but I'm up rn because his lil brother crying ggv not wanting his mom going to wrk now I cant sleep mind u I'm on the floor and I work from 2pm to 11 at night soon to pick up a 2nd job .. I just dont want problems with my husband but I got upset because my mother in law wants me to do this n do that n she doesnt want him to feel alone or feel like no one cares .like dude change ur schedule u shud be doing all that not me n u have the choice to change ur schedule she doesnt want to because everybody wants her shift .. but at the same time take ur son to school u cook him breakfast walk him to school n then go to wrk after .I dnt get it ..he hit her once or twice because she was using his phone she still wipes his butt he tell her wen to come to bed or come inside the house or when he wants water bad tantrums and rips the plants out the garden or yelling at her and I just know my kids wont be like that lol I wasnt idk if just because hes spoiled 8 year old with a big brother gone rn or me being diffrent because I had 9 other siblings n my parents didnt play that shit .. I'm looking for a second job soon n the mornings ..i no his mom is helping me my husband doesn't want me to move out so is his mom n I want to literally I'm use to living on my own but now i feel obligated like I have to do everything I dnt mind babysitting time to time but other than that I have alot of stuff going on and I just cant like I dont want to .. I rather do all this stuff for my own kids when I have them she said watch wen u have kids wat if u dnt have a job to were u cant take ur kids to school n I said I wud be able to find one were I can be there for my kids and watch them grow make them breakfast and walk them to school and then go to work ..its not hard to find a job at a certain time lol she just likes her schedule n I feel like she can change it and do it herself . If u need help baby sitting so u can have a night out coo but every morning all that n have to go to work still and all this other bs naww ..so pls tell me if I'm over thinking it . She doesnt want me to pay rent because she knows I'm catching up but fuk I rather pay rent then deal with that I dnt wanna sound like a bitch , n that's y I need my own place because I dnt get along living with others even my parents lol so I just feel like if theres no other way I woundn't mind but I feel like a built n baby sitter at her advantage