Ok currently this is my hair. It's postpartum, so it's falling out, but also normally thin frizzy curly and tangled. Its getting worse the longer it gets!

I'm wanting these styles

But I don't want it above my shoulder. Just a bit below.

HOW DO I EXPLAIN THIS!!??

Because I have explained it every which way and the last 3 times I've gone to THREE DIFFERENT HIGHLY RECOMMENDED PEOPLE, nobody gets it remotely right!!!! They're scared of curly hair (even though they claim the can do it) or they say it'll make my hair too thin.

Ok cool BUT my hair looks like shit!! Its a simple cut!!!! Help me explain this style.