I just saw my husband squeeze my domestic help's boobs!

I don't know what to do. It took me half an hour to walk to this park and I just don't know what to do. How do I handle this?

My husband was home early to my surprise and my domestic help Jana stayed back until now, whereas she leaves by 5pm. It is 6.30pm now and I don't know what's happening. I came home early today for some reason. I just saw her cleaning the bedroom windows while my husband standing behind had his hands up her blouse, clearly feeling them!! All I could see was that She was smiling and talking to him while he was having a ball!!!

Sorry, my mind is all over the place and I can't think straight. But one thing I know for sure is I won't let this motherfucker know that I know. He'll pay for this soon.

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Update 5

Im working from home today and my hubby just left for work and returned back home in like half an hour and bought flowers(red roses and wine) and was shocked to find me in our bedroom, still in the bed. He nervously announced that they were for me as I looked sick yesterday. Nerve on this guy! He refuses to go to office as he thinks me and Jana might talk. So, Jana enters the house with her spare key wearing a rather sexy deepest cleavage thing ever. Is shocked to find me. Decides to wear a jacket on that. I think she has a doubt that I know what's going on. She sheepishly cooks breakfast and lunch and doesn't even greet my husband. Only cold stares. I could literally poison them both right now and I wouldn't care a damn but I'm saner than that. I walked upto my husband and asked him to massage my back and he gave a quick look to Jana and got nervous. Her smile just vanished to see him massage me and she just went to the backyard. If he's doing this to me, he'll do this to her soon. Why don't women realise that!

Is this how your domestic help dresses?

She's Pakistani citizen living here in EU. She is wearing a sari and this is how she wore it before realising I was at home. I took a picture secretly and she didn't notice it and then I made an appearance. Now she is wearing a jacket on top of this. The picture is deleted due to lack of space.

Update 6

I took my old spare phone, downloaded the voice recording app, switched it on and left it in one of the cactus pots near the kitchen and left home for the bank to open a new bank account. They both were left home alone ofcourse. And, I'm deeply disgusted by their discussions and I don't know if I know this man at all. This wasn't the guy I married.

Just a minute into it, she yells at him saying something jibberish and it was as if he was trying to get hold of her and she was resisting. He was like I'm so sorry, I didn't know she would work from home and she didn't give him the chance to text her. She tells him that I think your wife has a hint about us and she doesn't wanna put her job in jeopardy as she has mouths to feed back at home and in Pakistan. She is a mother of 2 kids for heavens sake and her husband is a pious Islamic guy. My husband tells her that I wouldn't in a 100 years come to know about them as I'm very trusting of him and I'm planning to have his child. To that she responds by saying that all she agreed to was a little harmless sex on the sides as her husband might literally kill her for cheating on him. My husband says nobody will ever come to know. All he wants is some no strings attached kinda sex. So, it's all good. And, as I'm away this weekend, they both have walked right into my trap, coz they both are gonna spend 2 days together, undisturbed and locked in secretly. They still continued to talk but I didn't hear anything else as they walked away from the phone. He also thanked her for honouring his request of her wearing a sari and told her how sexy she looked in a sari and those juicy boobs are soon gonna be his!!! Yikes!! Not that I ever doubted this was happening but listening to this was not easy. It broke me, this shit just broke me.

Tomorrow I'm taking my husband to IKEA which is quiet far from here and I've left the spare key with my friends today. She doesn't work on Thursdays and Fridays. They're gonna put up nanny cams in all the fucking rooms and I'm just gonna keep my calm. Thanks for your kind messages. This is just a great venting place for me.

Update 7

Thank you all for your amazing support. I'm not ready to share this yet with my sister or parents, the anticipation will hurt them even more. I myself am not sure if this will work out, it's a little overwhelming for me. But, yup, this is it for me with this guy. I'm hurt beyond any words can ever describe.

And, no this is not Jana in the picture, I'm sorry if I'm unclear there. I wouldn't upload her picture anywhere, I'm not that uncultured. She still has kids and I wouldnt risk traumatising them,just in case the word gets out. As I've mentioned, I've archived it as evidence privately. But, this is an image which closely matches with Jana. Actually almost 99%! Anyways, the update is that my husband just bought me red roses and how I wish this wasn't happening. I wonder where it went all wrong. I can't stop hurting.

Update 8

I just dropped all my most imp stuff at my best friend's. I don't know if I'll feel like coming here, after returning from Norway. After seeing those videos. The recordings will be streamed to a hard drive and I won't even need those cams. I just realised how little in this house really matters, just my academic certificates and passport. Not even my clothes, bags or footwear. I met my sister on the way in COOP and I just started bawling, I couldn't stop. I just told her there's some issue at work and I'm unable to handle it. She instantly knew that I've been crying, but my husband didn't notice it. He thinks I'm just sick. I'm a little weaker today than yesterday, may be it's hitting me hard now. But, I won't ruin it by getting emotional. I can build a new life and I will have a great life!! Thank you, each one of you. Its my first time writing here and I didn't know how this works. But, your love and support just brings me a lot of courage. I hope we extend such love and blessings to every person who's going through something like this.

Also, no I won't be sending these videos to anybody. Unless, I'm stopped from accessing my bank account or my share of the property. I will have nothing to do with either of them, as to me my peace of mind is UTMOST important. I would want to focus my energy on building a new life, a better one, with or without a better man. I don't know. But, I don't wanna be stuck in this mess, in any which way. I have the best parents, best sister and the best of friends. I'll move on. I will surely.

Update 9

So Jana sent us a lasagne for dinner, as a surprise. She even called me to say "please enjoy". I don't know if it is poisoned, I am waiting for my husband to taste it, there's no way in hell I'm eating that. I mean, just look at the audacity. I live in Sweden and we don't have our dinner at this time. It's 20.45. She knows that. I'm least interested in anything actually. I just packed my clothes and thermals for Tromso. I'm really going there, not pretending, but literally going there, for sure. My husband is still out but his phone is here, I can easily see what's in it, but I don't even care. I will get my own evidence tomorrow. And, I'm confronting him after I return back to Sweden on Tuesday night. Not until then, I don't know how I'm gonna do it, coz I don't know what temperament I'll be in. Thanks for all the love.

Update : I over thought this. It wasnt poisoned, but I'm embarrassed as I got so suspicious. My husband is at his best behaviour. I am not as strong as I appear to be, I'm lost in a way. But positive reaffirmations always work for me. Im just apathetic right now, I know I'll cry when I meet my girls. As of now, just lagom.

Update : No much developments except for he tried to get cozy with me yesterday night. I was like HELL NO! But, I didn't over react. He got the hint and left me alone. Going to IKEA today. Have told my friends to get some flowers, just in case somebody sees them, they can always say I planned a surprise for my husband.

LAGOM is the scandinavian word meaning "not too much, not too little, just right". It's a kind of balanced attitude to everything.

Tack så mycket! Vi är i IKEA och jag kan inte sluta tänka på hem. De arbetar med det.

I've updated in a whole new post "PART 2 of the same title" as someone suggested, as I'm unable to write anything here. Sorry for the trouble.