What do I do?

3 weeks ago I had a trivial argument with my mother that escalated into attacking my personal life choices. She then told me to leave and not come back again. Her autoimmune condition causes her to go on a rage real quick, maybe that's my excuse but knowing her she will never be the person to come see me and be sorry about it. I know my dad will side with my mom so haven't heard from him either. I'm hurt, upset that she kicked me out with my baby while I was visiting. I've been thinking to be the bigger person (like always) and just go over, phone calls will be awkward. But then again, I feel like if I don't make attempt she won't care to reach out to me or see her grandbaby. What do I do?