What is love ?

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Hello! I’m currently in my first real relationship. We’re engaged and have a baby. I know that I love him and our family but more days than most I picture my future and he’s not in it. Some days I honestly wish I could meet someone new because it seems like we have nothing in common . I’m just curious if it’s normal to have these feelings in a long term relationship. Am I just bored? Am I supposed to ignore all these thoughts and feelings and push through because we’re a family? After the honeymoon phase is it normal to question the relationship? If love really is hard work and what I’m feeling is “normal” then I’ll stay with him forever. But if what I’m feeling isn’t “normal”  then I’ll obviously talk with him about either changing things or separating. So I guess what I’m asking is for all you married women or couples that plan to spend the rest of your lives together, how would you define love? And the ups and downs in a relationship? When would you know it’s time to leave? Or when it’s time to work harder in the relationship? 
Thank you!!!

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No this isn’t normal, at least in my experience.  I’ve never felt like I had to work hard in my marriage. We compliment each-other and work as a team. This is how I knew he was the one, no games, no guessing like I dealt with in other relationships 
How long have you been together?

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You could just be stuck in a rut. Do you do more or less the same things day by day? If so then try and go out more together as a couple, not as parents. Have fun together, try new things. If after that you still feel the way you do then maybe your not meant to be. I've been with my partner for 7 years, yes it's gets a bit routine on times but we make time for each other and have fun together. Not once have I ever questioned my feelings

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I’ve never doubted that my husband is the only one I want to spend my life with, even during hard times or fights. You should speak with him about it.

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No, this isn't normal. 
If you have to ask what love is, I'd be seriously considering this relationship.
I've been married 5 years, together for 8 and never once have I or did I question our relationship.
I know I married my soulmate, my best friend. I couldn't see a future without him.
We still can't keep our hands off each other, make each other laugh all the time and are happy to be around each other. 
I still get butterflies when I see its him calling.

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Sometimes I struggle with my relationship I am also pregnant and at times wonder if there is a future for us based on what I’ve already gone through. Honestly it depends on why you feel this way it could be real, could be hormones and could be things that you both need to discuss and work through with an exception of toxic or abusive relationships any relationship is going to be challenging and take work on both sides to keep that spark there and keep each other happy.

What is love ?

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