Am I the only one surrounded by toxic family members in all sides

My husband's family is super toxic and whimsical, MIL blocked me during my hard days with my ankle fracture, FIL keeps telling him that I have been brainwashing him. Psycho and cheap person

My mother's family is toxic and crazy infact my maternal grandmother was happy when my dad went into coma and passed away.

My dad's family is psychopath. Yesterday was my dad's death anniversary and my cousin sent me a very strange long msg about how I shouldn't be bitter and have expectations etc. I am not even bitter towards them.

I feel God has been really unfair by surrounding me on all sides with toxic people. Is it just me that God decided to give all these assholes to?