What should I do? Unexpected pregnancy.

My boyfriend and I have been dating and living together for over a year and 1/2. I recently found out I’m pregnant and I don’t want to tell him until I hear his perspective on where our relationship stands. I’ve mentioned before that I would like marriage because I truly believe he is the one. He expressed that he sees us long term and can see marriage but doesn’t think it is appropriate to confirm until he can ask with a ring. This conversation was around the year mark and we haven’t talked about it since.

Now that I am pregnant, I want to have this conversation because i want to know how he feels about us. I don’t want him to feel like he has to be with me or has to marry me because of this. I want him to be with me because he truly sees me as his wife, not just the mother of his child.

Am I wrong for having this mindset? How should I approach this? Should I tell him first? Should I get his perspective first? Please help!