My boyfriend had to get up very early and drive almost 2 hours to a whole different state because his brothers car broke down. When my boyfriend got back he had to get all the kids to school except his oldest who had late start and his son who had a doctors appointment. Over breakfast my boyfriend asked if I would drop the boy off at his moms and pick up the oldest who is there and take her to school. Do I really want to go out in the cold, when I have a cold, when I know I have to go out later with the 11 month old to run errands, no but I felt bad so I was like ya I’ll drive them. Also should mention we have to leave in 10 minutes after my boyfriend asks me to do this. I tell the son he needs to get ready. And then that we’re leaving. I leave the house go down to my car. Sit there and wait. He comes out a few minutes later. And just walking taking him sweet time starts walking around the lawn. Starts kicking the soccer ball around. Makes no effort to come get in the car even though he knows I’m leaving to take him to his moms. Anyway what would y’all do in this situation. Oh I probably should mention the kid is 11, he’s not a toddler.