Tension increaser/decreasers!

I posted about this on someone else's thread but tbh i think it deserves it's own. The concept of a tension increaser or decreaser is basically whether your babe NEEDS to cry a bit to settle themselves, or if crying makes them feel worse. It made a lot of sense to me since I'm the type of person (and my daughter too) who can't "have a good cry and feel better", as I'll just feel worse. So I figured I'd post these to maybe help some of you make sense of your babes temperament.