Low sex drive & have never climaxed

So I feel like I’ve always had a low sex drive, I have a vibrator but have maybe used it 5 times in the last 4 years. I just rarely get the urge. On top of this I feel like I’ve never been able to get really wet, or even if I do get wet it doesn’t last long and then I feel like my body doesn’t work especially when trying to be intimate with my boyfriend. I do sincerely try to get into it and when I feel like I should be wet, I’m just not.

I just want to be able to feel like a woman and enjoy ALL the pleasures, but I’ve struggled in finding what works for me.. Any advice? TIA ❤️