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I went to a scan two weeks ago they said they couldn't find a heart beat and they told me I was going to miscarry, I'm in the position where I'm waiting for this horrible thing to happen but I'm (tmi) I'm only got creamy cm and little cramps here and there is this signs of it happening or could they possibly have got it wrong? Some one please give me advice this waiting game is killing me 😭

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This just happened to me. The waiting was so hard and I became incredibly anxious. I decided to get a D&E and spoke with my doctor about being worried they got it wrong. He assured me that while it’s unfortunate there should be a heart beT and there wasn’t. It was emotional but personally I am very happy with my decision to get a D&E because the limbo and waiting was hurting my mental health. Any twinge of pain and I was so afraid it was going to happen. Thinking of you. 💕 I’m one week post D&E and physically feel very good, just hard emotionally.

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It doesnt start straight away, i only found out about mine when i bloody discharge, and mine was silent it had passed away 2 weeks before. I had a d&c couldnt bare to wait naturally big hugs you this is a tough time x

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How many weeks were you suppose to be when you went to the scan, and what gestational age did you actually measure at?

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When I miscarried around as far along as you, I bled pretty heavy almost like a full on period and then went to the hospital and they told me I’m miscarrying and that the process was already starting and I got really bad cramps all night that had me up crying and then woke up in the morning to wipe and see all that had come out on my toilet paper. My back was also very sore afterward. Just any little bend or movement hurt my low back so bad. And the doctor said that’s normal and it’ll go away.

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