He's 20 and slept with 5 girls, is it a lot?

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I've been with nobody and we've already talked and he knows before we do anything he's getting tested. But my friends are all saying it's a lot and now I don't know what to think. I was pretty nervous to begin with and now my nerves are all over the place.

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The # of people you slept with should never matter. What matters is y’all getting tested before sex to be sure everything is good to go. Then definitely protection as well!

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It depends. Some people think it’s a lot, others think it’s minuscule. Who cares what we or hour friends think? If you don’t care about the number (and in my opinion, you shouldn’t) then it doesn’t matter

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I don’t believe in shaming people because they love sex. What would be more important to me is if he is practising safe sex not the sex itself.

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My husband was the 6th person I slept with, and we met when I was 19. 🤷🏻‍♀️
Idk personally I wouldn’t judge him for what he did before he met you. It’s not like he had sex with 40 people or something. 5 isn’t a ton.

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Also would just like to add, if you flipped the genders here and were a man wondering if a woman sleeping with 5 people was too many and you were skeptical about her because of that, people would be jumping down your throat for slut shaming...

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No that doesn’t sound like a lot to me. It really doesn’t matter as it has no indication of how he’ll be in a relationship.

He's 20 and slept with 5 girls, is it a lot?

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