When I first found out I was pregnant, I was no more than 4 weeks. My husband was so excited he told a couple of his coworkers about it but asked them to keep it on the low. One of his female coworkers told him not to get too excited and told him to tell me “don’t get attached” and that she lost her baby at 20 weeks. That was literally the first thing I heard from anyone since I didn’t even tell my family yet. I was devastated and so scared. Well, as of today I am 20 weeks!!!!!! Baby is healthy and growing and I just recently found out it’s a boy! He is always kicking mommy and hates when I sleep on my right side lol.