Thanksgiving travel at 37 weeks

Hi ladies. I am a ftm and I will be around 37 weeks at thanksgiving. I originally agreed to go home to spend thanksgiving with my family since I do not plan to travel anywhere at Christmas as it is so close to my due date. My parents live about 1hr 45 min away from me. Now they want us to come to their vacation home instead, which is about 2hr 30 min away from me. Although not a huge difference in travel time, I expressed my discomfort about that much time in the car, my increase in aches and pains lately, and concern for being even farther from my hospital. My family is not really taking my thoughts and feelings into consideration. Am I being unreasonable?

I do plan on asking my OB as well.

How far are you traveling for the upcoming holiday?