Hair help!!

QueenBee320 • Honeywax

I absolutely hate bruising my hair cause it fluffs up so bad. I also hate having to brush out the waves the bottom half of my head sprouts out now after having kids. I want to amplify whatever I have now, but I don't know what to do! Can I get tips, tricks, products, how-to's, whatever you know?

Clarification: 2A on top, 2c on bottom