The girl who said she has a crush on her fiancés best man...
I already wrote a thought-out comment when you deleted the post so I’m posting it lmao.
Look, no one is perfect so the reasons you have against your fiancé I wouldn’t really take into account. Anyone you spend your life with is going to bother you in certain ways, that’s just life.
But I don’t understand how you could marry someone while having a crush on someone else? And your poor fiancé, how low is his self esteem to marry YOU, when you have a crush on his best friend...? Sure the friend doesn’t reciprocate but that doesn’t make it ok. If you’re capable of having a crush on someone else, what’s to say you won’t develop another crush on someone else in a few years and then maybe that person WILL reciprocate.
I’d save your fiancé the heartbreak and divorce pain honestly and let him find someone who loves him and only him.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.