Hi ladies! This might be a long one but I’m so sick of being treated like I don’t know what I’m doing.

I had a mc back in August and fell pregnant about 6 weeks later, at first, my doctor told me it was impossible and that my tests were positive from the mc (but my levels were back to normal a week after the Mc so it obviously wasn’t)

It took me three weeks to convince her after my first positive test to give me an ultrasound and what was there? My beautiful little 6wk baby! My doctor then told me she would see me every week and book me in with the specialist (feral medicine unit)

Now, from 7wks, my morning sickness has NOT been nice. Some days I can throw up once or twice and be fine for the rest of the day, but some days I’m stuck with my head in a bucket because it just won’t stop. So I wasn’t able to get myself in to see her till this week (at 11wks) and I thought everything was fine until she turns around to me and tells me that I’ve lost 3kg in the past month, and that because I’m loosing weight I’m putting my baby in danger! She said I’m hurting my baby and that if I continued to loose weight I would kill my little love. I started crying straight away, I’ve never been spoken to by a doctor like that. I didn’t ask her about any other issues that I had, I didn’t even ask to use the Doppler, I was so upset, I got straight out of there.

I have my 12 week scan in two days, and then I’m meant to see the doctor a week after, but I don’t want to go back. How do I deal with this? I’ve been so worried this whole pregnancy my anxiety is through the roof and this has just broken me.