In my culture

firt time mommy here

They let babies cry it out for everything. If your baby cries for you you're suppose to let them cry for you so they don't get attached. I'm wondering what your thoughts are on this? Reason is I went in the shower while dad watched her & acted like he was playing with her soo when i went in she instantly started screaming & i thought nothing of it til 15 min later i come & she's hysterically crying & her dad is just laying there saying hes doing me a favor because she's too attached to me. I'm not going to work anytime soon because its just me & her at home.

What are your thoughts? Did you let your kids cry without giving them attention or do you believe this is a bad idea?