So I’m due any day now, and my husbands family is trying to plan Christmas / the activities we will be doing. Everyone wants to go to this really nice lights display. I’ve always wanted to go but it’s like $90 a person. My husbands parents offered to take the whole family which is super nice, but the more I think about it the more nervous I’m getting. Baby will only be about 2 weeks old and it’s at night for probably at least 4 hours and it’s very cold out. On top of that I will still be recovering from my first birth and I just don’t know how it’s going to go... I tried to express this to my husband this morning but he actually got upset with me :( am I being unreasonable??? I’m not sure what to do... I just don’t want them spending all this money on me to go then have to feel obligated or have to say no if I’m not feeling up to it...