How can i make Hubby understand?

Question

I had a breakdown today. He kept telling me he couldn't see the line i could see so well. He made me feel delusional, crazy even. Saying i was taking too many tests and spending too much money. I only am POAS because im scared I wont catch it in time again. I have pcos, so whenever i miss a period its a big thing. I swear i got 2 faint lines today, ive already lost 1 child possibly 2 to miscarriage and im scared i wont catch it in time again, like i have in the past. What can i do to help him understand?

Answer

I don’t know if a man will ever fully understand what we go through as women. I think it’s more important that he respects that your feelings are valid and try to at least comfort you in those. 
In the meantime, there are cheaper ovulation and pregnancy tests you can get online. I got 50 ovulation and 20 pregnancy tests for $13.

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First of all I’m sorry about your loss, I lost two pregnancies, the last one was ectopic, I was like you testing all the time and my husband would scream at me for me testing all the time then crying and spending tons of money on tests instead of using those money for something else, I couldn’t understand him and I would get mad at him start yelling and crying you don’t know how I feel, how it is to me, you don’t know what I’m going through bla bla blah, his response was the physical pain I don’t, the emotional pain I do, don’t think if I don’t cry I don’t know how painful it is, if I yell at you for doing the tests isn’t about the money you spent on them it’s you being disappointed after and crying all the time and I can’t see you like that it hurts me, so after the ectopic I was like let’s do it come on let’s try, we tried for two months after that and I gave up, I couldn’t hold the pressure I was putting on myself, so give yourself a time to heal, easy your mind and body, then try again, I’m way better and happier person since I said I want to pause for few months, they love us, they’re not worried just about the money, they feel the pain too, so give yourself a rest and all the best to you hun.

How can i make Hubby understand?

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