Hormones or ?

So i’m currently 29 weeks pregnant & this by far has been a hard pregnancy for me . I had severe morning sickness up until about week 16, horrible backaches, and my blood pressure has been up and down... My bf acts like i’m over exaggerating, he never wants to massage my back or help me out when i’m going through it well now his neck has a pinched nerve & he’s acting as if it’s the end of the world and expects me to massage his neck, get him ice when he needs it, and he’s taken over my pregnancy pillow ... not to mention he gets so upset when i “move too much” in bed because it hurts his neck so bad . I’ve honestly started to distance myself from him because he’s literally been on my LAST nerve ... idk if i’m being hormonal or he really is being a big ass baby .