orgasming too fast

Lately when I masturbate, or when I am getting head from my hubs, I feel like I cum way too fast. 🙃 I want to enjoy it, because it feels really good, but I feel like after I’ve cum, the same thing doesn’t feel good anymore.

I think maybe part of the issue is that I can’t easily orgasm a second time - how does one do that? Help meeee lol